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02 Juin 2025 - mel...

A man who is 10 years older than me and with whom I have been in a “relationship” for a year continues to write to me, my friends and my parents. I also wanted to mention in detail what he did to me since I have no one to tell about it.

It started at Christmas and ended at the end of January when I realized that this definitely needed to stop. The first time I was in a very sleepy state, he slowly undressed me, I didn’t say “yes” or “no”, but he continued. He eventually gave me oral sex and then put my hand down his pants. And only after a few minutes I realized that there was a penis in my hand.

A few days before this I told him that I was afraid of penises to the point of tears and did not want to look at them or touch them. The next few times when I came to his house I woke up because he was putting a vibrator on me, he touches me at night. He also gave me oral sex again, although I tried my best to avoid it. I literally held my chest so that he wouldn't touch me, but the moment I raised my hands, his hands were on me. Or when I was lying down, he would press himself against me and start to hit his hips many times against my leg and moan. He has handcuffs, collars, floggers, he is into BDSM and when I was walking with him in the forest he said “I could rape you right now“.

On the last day when I saw him, he touched me at night and it seemed like an eternity to me, in the morning he sat me on his lap and touched me, although I twitched and said that I didn’t want to. He often spanked me on the street. The first and last time I brought him to my house he started spanking me and I just lay on the floor and cried while he continued. And as it turned out later, he thought that I was just playing and not crying.

He took drugs, sold drugs, said that age is just a number and I am a minor, supported the actions of Adolf Hitler, said many racist things. In his company I thought that these were jokes (yes, I know disgusting jokes, but I thought it was irony and I nodded along). He claimed that I was addicted because I was chatting with bots in the “character ai“, but I'm not.

I haven't seen him or tried to communicate with him since February, but he still writes to me or my parents. He knows where I live, where I study, where my parents work. One time I jokingly said “who of my friends would you date if I didn't exist“ and the answer should have been “no one“. But in response I received the answer that it would be my cousin who was born in 2009. I'm trying to collect all the photos and videos, I already wrote to eff-zett, but quite a lot of time has passed, and I still haven't received an answer. I'm sorry for the amount of details, I just wanted to talk about it.