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SVADJA ILI NASILJE?<\/h2>

Kod ve\u0107ine parova dogadjaju se povremeno prepirke, svadje. Supru\u017enici, partneri, mogu i da se posvadjaju, a da to ne izazove obavezno negativne posledice. Ku\u0107no nasilje (\u201cbra\u010dno nasilje\u201d) je ne\u0161to drugo. Ono ima razaraju\u0107e posledice na sve \u010dlanove porodice. Kada se primenjuje nasilje, po\u0161tovanje prema onom drugom i ravnopravnost izmedju partnera nestaju.<\/p>\n

Ku\u0107no nasilje je nasilje koje se dogadja u zajednici, bilo da se radi o bra\u010dnij ili vanbra\u010dnoj. Takvo nasilje mo\u017ee da se pojavi na samom po\u010detku veze i stvaranja zajednice, posle vi\u0161e godina zajedni\u010dkog \u017eivota ili u trenutku kada dodje do rastavljanja.<\/p><\/div>

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LE CYCLE DE LA VIOLENCE<\/h2><\/div>

Chaque situation de couple est unique, mais la plupart du temps, la violence se d\u00e9roule sous la forme d\u2019un cycle de quatre phases, v\u00e9ritable cercle vicieux destructeur, facilement rep\u00e9rable une fois qu\u2019il est connu. Il est difficile de rompre ce cycle infernal sans soutien ext\u00e9rieur. Briser le silence et l\u2019isolement, parler de sa situation est une \u00e9tape importante pour y arriver.<\/p><\/div>

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1. La tension monte<\/h4>

Un-e-x des partenaires a peut-\u00eatre de la peine \u00e0 exprimer ses sentiments, ses d\u00e9saccords. Les frustrations et m\u00e9contentements s\u2019accumulent. Ou alors une des personnes veut tout contr\u00f4ler au sein de la famille et refuse la n\u00e9gociation. Chaque manquement \u00e0 sa volont\u00e9 est source d\u2019insatisfaction. Dans les deux cas, la tension monte. L\u2019autre partenaire peut sans doute d\u00e9j\u00e0 rep\u00e9rer des signes de violence, mais esp\u00e8re que ce n\u2019est que passager et que la situation se calmera rapidement.<\/p>Posez votre question<\/a><\/div><\/div>

2. La violence explose<\/h4>

La personne violente finit par exploser, pour se d\u00e9charger ou pour r\u00e9gler les conflits \u00e0 son avantage. Alors que la violence \u00e9tait mesur\u00e9e pendant la premi\u00e8re phase, elle est alors capable de tout: hurlements, insultes, menaces, intimidations, gifles, coups, etc. La victime se sent pi\u00e9g\u00e9e, terrifi\u00e9e, impuissante. Bien souvent, la seule solution pour que cela s\u2019arr\u00eate est de se conformer aux exigences de la personne violente.<\/p>Posez votre question<\/a><\/div><\/div>

3. La personne auteure de violence se justifie et fait douter l'autre partenaire<\/h4>

La personne violente minimise ensuite ses actes et leurs cons\u00e9quences et invoque des causes externes (stress, fatigue, ch\u00f4mage, etc.) pour justifier son d\u00e9bordement. Elle justifie son comportement en disant avoir \u00e9t\u00e9 provoqu\u00e9e. La victime en vient \u00e0 douter d'elle-m\u00eame, \u00e0 se culpabiliser. Elle finit par penser que c'est \u00e0 elle de changer pour que la violence cesse.<\/p>Posez votre question<\/a><\/div><\/div>

4. La personne violente promet de ne plus recommencer, l'autre partenaire reprend espoir<\/h4>

Le moment de crise pass\u00e9, la personne auteure de violence s'excuse, jure de ne plus recommencer. Elle a peur de perdre l'autre partenaire et fait tout pour se faire pardonner. La victime reprend espoir. Elle veut croire \u00e0 ces promesses de changement et oublier la souffrance. Les excuses accompagn\u00e9es de marques de gentillesse sont accept\u00e9es. C'est comme une nouvelle lune de miel qui encourage le couple \u00e0 poursuivre la relation.<\/p>Posez votre question<\/a><\/div><\/div>

Mais l'accalmie ne dure pas<\/h4>

La spirale de la violence recommence, avec des phases de plus en plus rapproch\u00e9es et des agressions de plus en plus graves. Si rien n\u2019est entrepris, la violence peut aboutir \u00e0 des blessures dangereuses pour la vie, des l\u00e9sions irr\u00e9versibles. Le risque d'homicide n'est pas n\u00e9gligeable.<\/p>Posez votre question<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section>[\/vc_column][\/vc_row]<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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